Ladies First

Yesterday, I logged in to watch something I’ve been holding off on, on Netflix. And what actually caught my attention was Rosamund Pike.

I was wondering how she was in a comedy. Not like she doesn’t do comedy, but I’m used to seeing her in roles like Gone Girl and I Care a Lot, where her character is… I don’t know how to put it, very strange.

So I was curious to see what comedy Rosamund Pike was in. I watched it and I enjoyed it.

What I took away from it is how amazing the whole idea was portrayed, and I give kudos to whoever came up with it. It’s a movie about a parallel world where women are in charge, and the men are in second place. The men have to work hard to be appreciated, to achieve something, and to prove themselves.

So this more or less just goes to show us what women go through. A man finds himself in this parallel universe, and suddenly he has to navigate a world where everything is the other way around.

I really liked it. I like the message. I hope people get to see it. It’s nice. It’s really nice.

I don’t want to spoil it by saying more, but it’s Rosamund Pike, and it’s reverse roles.

That Scene

I read The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood years ago, and I was obsessed with it. So when I heard the movie was coming, I was really looking forward to watching it.

I have seen it now, and of course, there were differences, as usual with book adaptations.

But there was one scene I was actually looking forward to.

That scene where the seats are full and Adam has to carry Olive on his thigh.

And the funny thing is, I didn’t go looking for what was going to be in the movie and what wasn’t going to be in it. I wanted it to just unveil itself to me while I watched.

So I was watching, waiting…

And when I realised that scene wasn’t going to happen?

Heartbreaking.

Honestly, heartbreaking.

It’s funny how you can read a book years ago and still remember these little moments. Not necessarily the biggest scenes, but those little things that stuck with you.

I really wanted to see that one.

And it wasn’t there.

Chapter 6.

This Feels Wrong

I’ve been watching Ransom Canyon Season 2, and I have to admit, I’m struggling to understand something.

When the previews hinted that Lauren and Kit were going to become a thing, I went on TikTok to see what people were saying, and to my surprise, so many people were excited.

They were cheering. They couldn’t wait for it to happen…. And I’m here wondering… Why?

Maybe I watch stories differently, but I don’t see this as a victory.

At the point I’m watching now, Lucas has just seen Lauren and Kit kiss.

His own brother.

That moment broke his relationship with Lauren, and now Lauren is in tears.

I’m not celebrating. I’m grieving the damage.

What surprises me even more is that so many people seem to be rooting for the relationship simply because Lauren and Kit have chemistry.

But is chemistry enough?

One thing I noticed long before the kiss was how much Lauren and Kit seemed to dislike each other. Their arguments were intense. The tension between them was always there. While many viewers probably saw that as romantic tension, I saw something different.

I kept thinking, “These two hate each other a little too much.” I’m familiar with the Enemies to Lovers trope I’m romance and I kept feeling as if all that emotion would find an outlet, and unfortunately, it came out in a way that hurt someone else.

Maybe that’s what the writers intended. Maybe they wanted us to believe that strong emotions can blur the line between love and hate. But for me, that doesn’t make the outcome something to celebrate.

Perhaps this says more about me than it does about the show. When I watch a story, I’m not only looking at who ends up together. I’m thinking about loyalty, trust, and the people left picking up the pieces.

I can’t ignore Lucas standing there, watching his girlfriend kiss his brother.

That image stays with me more than the romance.

I’ve realized that social media and I often experience stories differently. A scene that sends thousands of fans into excitement can leave me feeling deeply uncomfortable.

And I’m okay with that.

Not every relationship with chemistry deserves applause.

Sometimes chemistry creates beautiful love stories. Other times, it creates heartbreak.

Right now, all I can see is the heartbreak.

Maybe as I continue watching Ransom Canyon, my perspective will change.

But at this point in the story…

I simply don’t understand why everyone is celebrating.

Well, like I always say… Different strokes… Right?

Ransom Canyon is basically one of those small-town dramas where everybody knows everybody, but everyone is carrying one secret or another. You’ve got family drama, romance, heartbreak, rivalry, grief, and plenty of “Why would you do that?” moments. It’s set around ranch life in Texas, but it’s really more about the complicated relationships between the people than the cowboys and horses. If you like Virgin River, Sweet Magnolias or even Yellowstone, you’ll probably enjoy it. It’s available on Netflix.

Just like old times

My Review of Voicemails for Isabelle


Last night I spent my evening watching Voicemails for Isabelle, and I have to say, I really enjoyed it.

I shared here immediately how I couldn’t shake the feeling that it reminded me of a book I had read before.

What surprised me most was how quickly the movie pulled me in.

About fifteen minutes into the movie, I actually checked the time because I couldn’t believe how much had already happened. So many emotions were already coming up for me, and the movie had barely started. It felt packed in the best possible way.

By the time I was an hour in, I was getting those old-school rom-com vibes. Some months ago, I wrote about how much I missed movies like You’ve Got Mail and those romance stories that make you smile, hope, and feel all warm inside. This movie gave me that feeling.

The story was solid. The characters were engaging. The emotions felt real. It was just a wonderful watch.

I could easily have given it a 10 out of 10, but I’m not going to.

As a romance reader and a lover of rom-coms, there’s always that moment I look forward to. That point where the character truly realizes they were wrong, owns it, grows from it, and you can feel the weight of that realization. I wanted a little more of that here.

The reunion was good, but I wanted more emotion. I wanted to see the pain in the eyes, the regret, the vulnerability, the growth. I wanted that moment to hit a little harder than it did.

Still, that’s a small complaint in what was otherwise a beautiful movie.

This isn’t just a romance. It’s also about family, love, grief, healing, sisterhood, and connection. It makes you feel more than one thing, and I appreciate movies that can do that.

So my final rating is 9 out of 10.

It’s beautiful. It’s heartfelt. And if you’re someone who loves stories that make you feel, I think you’ll enjoy this one.

Have I Read This Movie?

I started watching Voicemails for Isabelle on Netflix this evening. I was in need of a calm romcom and a few hours of entertainment. What I didn’t expect was the nagging feeling that I had somehow read this story before.

A few scenes into the movie, I found myself mentally flipping through the shelves of books I’ve read over the years. I kept asking myself, “Where have I read this before?”
I didn’t have to go too far. The book sat in my recent reads.

Wrong Number, Right Guy by Elle Casey.

Now, to be clear, Voicemails for Isabelle is not an adaptation of Wrong Number, Right Guy. The plots are different. The characters are different… But the emotional experience of the two stories feels remarkably similar.

Both stories revolve around a connection that begins indirectly. In Wrong Number, Right Guy, a mistaken text message opens the door to an unexpected relationship. In Voicemails for Isabelle, voicemails become a bridge between two people. In both cases, words create intimacy before life catches up.

There is something uniquely romantic about getting to know someone’s thoughts before fully knowing the person. Messages strip away appearances, distractions, and first impressions. They allow vulnerability to arrive first.

That is what I recognized.

Both stories capture the anticipation of waiting for the next message. The curiosity of wondering who is on the other side. The comfort that comes from being understood by someone you haven’t fully met. The emotional connection develops through conversations, not circumstances.

As readers and viewers, we’ve seen versions of this trope many times, but when it’s done well, it still works. There is something timeless about two people finding each other through words.

The more I watched Voicemails for Isabelle, the more I realized that what felt familiar wasn’t the storyline itself. It was the emotional rhythm. The same rhythm that made Wrong Number, Right Guy so engaging.

The movie wasn’t a book I’d already read. It simply reminded me why I love reading them.

Have you ever watched a movie that felt so familiar you were convinced you’d already read the book?

Office Romance: What Exactly Did I Just Watch?

I just watched the new Jennifer Lopez movie Office Romance, and I’m honestly not sure what I watched. I asked myself, was it a comedy? Was it a romantic comedy? Was it… something else? I just didn’t get the vibe.

The movie stars Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein, and on paper, this should have worked. The love interest was a solid man, a solid 9 out of 10 for me, and she too is a solid 10 out of 10. The ingredients were there. Attractive leads. Workplace tension. Secret romance. A big-budget Netflix release. Yet somehow, for me, the whole thing felt cheesy… Not charmingly cheesy. Just… cheesy.

What’s interesting is that my reaction isn’t entirely unique.

When you juxtapose my feelings with many of the reviews coming out after the film’s release, a pattern starts to emerge.

Several critics described the movie as struggling to find its tone. Some felt it couldn’t decide whether it wanted to be a classic Jennifer Lopez romantic comedy, a modern workplace satire, or an edgy R-rated comedy. Others complained that the humor felt forced and that the emotional connection between the characters never quite landed. Critics from major publications called it formulaic, awkward, and surprisingly lacking in warmth despite having two charismatic leads.

That said, not everyone hated it.

A number of viewers actually loved the chemistry between Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein. Some fans described the pair as magnetic and said they would happily watch the movie again. Others appreciated that it wasn’t trying to reinvent the romantic comedy genre and simply wanted to entertain.

But even among viewers who enjoyed it, there was a recurring feeling that the film leaned heavily on familiar rom-com tropes. It often felt predictable, and many audience members found themselves seeing plot developments coming from miles away. And as a rom-com monger, I totally agree.

Maybe that’s why I kept waiting for something more.

I wasn’t asking for realism. We don’t watch rom-com for realism. Romantic comedies have never been documentaries. But I was looking for something that felt authentic. Something that made me root for the couple rather than simply acknowledge that they’re both attractive people on my screen.

Instead, I found myself wondering what kind of movie I was actually watching.

The strange thing about Office Romance is that it isn’t a complete disaster. Jennifer Lopez remains effortlessly watchable. I am a huge Lopez fan, I think I clapped enough for her in my post Jennifer Lopez from 20th May, 2023. Brett Goldstein has charm. The cast is talented. The production looks polished.

But good ingredients don’t always make a memorable meal.

In the end, Office Romance feels like a movie that knows exactly what it wants to be but never quite convinces the audience to come along for the ride.

Maybe that’s why, after the credits rolled, my biggest thought wasn’t whether I liked it or hated it.

It was simply:

“What exactly did I just watch?”

Fire and Water

I got a movie recommendation from my sister last month. It was an animation titled Elemental. I usually don’t dive into animations. The few I’ve seen have always been on movie nights with SonTer.

…but this one… she assured me it was worth it.

So I saw it.

It was a soft, colorful animated movie. It focused on the use of the  elements earth, wind, fire and water as personalities… with emphasis on water and fire. Somewhere between the glowing streets, emotional family conversations and all… it became something much heavier…how can fire truly love water?


Water can put out fire. Fire can boil water away. Their very existence together feels unstable and even almost dangerous. The story gave me something to think about.


When the movie began, the question was: Can two completely different beings survive each other?
And then slowly, it changed into something deeper: Can people learn how to love each other without destroying who the other person is?


Wade never stops being water. Ember never stops being fire. Neither one changes into something easier or safer. Instead, they learn gentleness. Boundaries. Patience. Space.
…that is what love is… Sometimes.
We don’t become identical and we don’t erase our differences.
We also do not pretend incompatibility does not exist. We learn the other person’s nature carefully enough that neither of you burns out.
Ember feared that she was “too much.” Too intense, too dangerous, too difficult to be loved comfortably. Wade was the first person who saw her fully and did not treat her like something that needed to be controlled.

Underneath the bright animation and funny moments, Elemental asks a question some people secretly ask themselves:
What if who I naturally am hurts the people I love?

The movie answers:
Love may simply be learning how not to destroy each other.

But sometimes, you ask, is it worth the risk?

Elemental is such a good movie for conversation and discussion because beneath the colorful animation and humor, it also explores deep human themes like love, compatibility, cultural expectations, prejudice, emotional differences, and the fear of being misunderstood.
The use of elements makes the emotions symbolic and relatable. Fire feels intense and passionate, water feels soft and emotional, earth feels grounded, and air feels free and light.

Reminders of Him

Contrary to some reviews I’ve seen, I think the adaptation of Reminders of Him was not so bad at all. Maybe because I expected worse, maybe because movie makers often leave out so many important details.

Don’t get me wrong, details were left out here too… especially the background story for Kenna. Nothing was really mentioned there, and if you know the book, you know just how much that backstory carries the emotional weight of everything else.

I think that’s the tricky thing with adaptations. If you have not read it, you may feel it lacks a thing or two, and you won’t even know what it is. It just feels… slightly hollow in places. But because I read the book, I comfortably filled in the gaps. I knew what wasn’t being said, I could feel the missing layers, and somehow that made the experience fuller for me.

Watching it felt like reading between the lines in real time… like my mind was quietly supplying all the depth the screen couldn’t quite hold.

On the whole, I think it was a decent job. Not perfect, not complete, but still worth the watch… especially if, like me, you walked in already carrying the story in your heart.

One large thumbs up to Tyriq Leshon Withers, the actor who played the role of Ledger… I want to see more of him in such roles.

People We Meet on Vacation

When this year began, somewhere around the 5th of January, I got tired of waiting for People We Meet on Vacation and so I started watching The Diplomat… Just a little something to hold me till the 9th of January. I enjoyed The Diplomat so much that I decided to finish it up even when the long awaited movie dropped.

Today I finally saw the movie.

People We Meet on Vacation is an adaptation of Emily Henry’s novel with the same title.

I had jumped on the novel the moment I learned that the adaptation was in production. It was in fact my second Emily Henry read, just after Book Lovers. I always love to do that; read a book and then see what film makers will make of it.

What did I think of this one?

It was nicely done. I had been worried about how well they could fit the back and forth of ten years as written in the book. They managed just fine… Not leaving too much from the book out of the film.

It’s a story about two longtime friends who take yearly trips together, they slowly realize that the person who feels most like home may also be the one they’re afraid to choose.

I have left details of the story out so as not to create any spoilers for anyone.

It’s a good movie and an excellent book.

Mamma Mia!

Anyone  who has read my last three posts may recognize my current love… I’m going back… and I’m rewatching a few good movies.
Today, I rewatched Mamma Mia! Sixteen years later… and I have chills.

Mamma Mia! is a musical set on a Greek island. It features lots of ABBA songs. It follows a young woman, Sophie, who invites three men to her wedding, hoping to discover which one is her father.

The music… this where the chills kept coming, song after song. ABBA never ever gets old. Plus…it hits just right.
The laughter… it all felt familiar, yet somehow deeper this time. It made  me think of my friends and how obnoxious we get sometimes when we get together… and it’s been a while since I had this. I need this.

Looking back, I realise that the first time I saw it, I was younger, unamarried, and not yet a mother. And even though I was six years older than her age in the movie, I found myself reasoning with Sophie… her excitement, her dreams, her search for answers. I understood that version of her so well. She was hopeful, curious, and full of wonder about love and life.

But now… watching it again, I find myself reasoning with Donna. Her weariness, her strength, her messy courage. I see the woman who has built a life out of fragments, a woman who carries love and loss in the same breath… and even the same heart… a woman who keeps singing anyway.
I see her… exhaustion, independence, a mix of pride and vulnerability… I feel her. I understand her choices and her chaos in a way I never did before. It’s funny how life catches up with the stories we once only watched.
I feel her more than I ever expected to. I paused a time or two to ponder on this.

And what an incredible trio of “fathers” she had. Mmmmmm… what an ensemble of lookers; Pierce Brosnan, Colin Firth, and Stellan Skarsgård. Each one of them was charming in his own way.  Pierce Brosnan (Sam)… steady and soulful, Colin Firth (Harry)… sweet and slightly awkward, and Stellan Skarsgård (Bill)… the free-spirit.

Sixteen years later, Mamma Mia! still feels like sunshine… but now, it warms me in a different way. It reminds me how life shifts and softens us, how love changes shape, and how we keep dancing through it all.
I realised also, you can always find yourself, whether it’s at twenty, at forty, or even again at sixty.