Body language

Most times, when i need to have a serious conversation with somebody, I always prefer when it’s physical face to face rather than phone call or chatting. That’s when I can help it.

I like to see you while I hear you. I want to know what your body is saying, not just what your mouth is saying.

I’m someone that notices human behaviour a lot.

I notice the little things and then, I notice the change in people’s faces… Hesitations and sometimes Sudden distance. I am talking about the way sometimes somebody suddenly cannot look you in the eye.

When I was growing up and even now as an adult, I have experienced situations where someone was perfectly fine with me one day and then suddenly they become very wary of Me or uncomfortable around me.

Then it turns out that sometimes in those situations I would later find out that they had said something behind my back or done something that they wouldn’t want me to know… that’s when their sudden change begins to make sense.

I don’t believe that every time someone avoids to look at me, there’s something they’re hiding… some people are actually anxious, embarrassed or uncomfortable. And you know, some are just simply having a bad day. Body language is just information after all… not necessarily proof.

It’s just fascinating when someone’s words and their behaviour doesn’t agree at all… I just watch, observe and try not to jump into conclusions.

But like I said before, I really really prefer having face-to-face conversations When it becomes something necessary.