ASAP… Really?

One thing I’ve noticed is that people often confuse ASAP with immediately, but they’re not the same thing.

When you send me a message or you tell me something and add; “I need it ASAP”,  I do a small inner laugh… What if that’s next year?


Let’s see… so, immediately means, drop what you’re doing and do this now.

ASAP means, do it at the earliest practical opportunity. It still carries urgency, but it also recognizes that you may be in the middle of something important. What if important things keep coming up?

The difference matters because words set expectations. If you say immediately, you’re asking for instant action. If you say ASAP, you’re asking for the earliest possible action without assuming the person has nothing else on their plate.

We communicate better when we choose words that mean exactly what we intend. ASAP isn’t right now people, stop giving me that option. 😁

April

Beautiful Saturday morning.

The kids are all outside pranking each other.

I can hear them from inside. It’s the first day of April and everyone is looking to call someone a fool.

April fools.

I remember my most successful April fool practical joke, about 16 years ago. I had gotten my boyfriend (now husband) really bothered and fooled. He believed I had been involved in an accident and had been hospitalised.

I never tried another April fools practical joke on anyone again. I wonder why. I’m thinking this year may be different.

What’s the best April fools practical joke you ever played on someone or was ever played on you?

Please share.